5 Rules for a Successful Date
In order to find that one person you are willing to spend the rest of your life with, it is necessary to get yourself out there and start dating. Finding the right person requires undergoing a process of selection, and can be a successful journey, depending on how you present yourself.
Whether you have been in the dating scene for a while, or have taken a break from dating for several years, there are still some rules that should be followed by everyone in order to have a great date.
Watch the drinks and the manners. The worst thing you can do is drink too much and become drunk. If this happens, it is probable that she will never want to see you again. It is rude and shows bad character. Be extra careful about your manners, how you speak and how you handle yourself as a person.
Be a good listener. As much as you should need to talk about yourself, let her take the floor too. Donít just let her talk, but do listen. If you are seriously interested in having a serious relationship, you should be able to know your partner and listen to her. Ask questions and encourage her to open up. Show interest not just in what she looks like, but how she is as a person.
Put your best foot forward. Do your best to look as great as you can. Visit the barber or salon and get a haircut and a professional shave. Choose your clothes carefully, and be sure not to be too flashy, but not underdressed either. Most importantly, be on time. A good date never keeps the woman waiting.
Keep the atmosphere light and happy. A date is not the time to open up the heartache stories. There will be a time for that somewhere down the line. Focus on giving her a good time so she can relax and enjoy your company.
Be generous with the compliments. If your date looks good, tell her so. Women put in effort to look good on dates, so itís just right that you mention how nice she looks in her dress or how extra pretty she looks all dressed up. Every woman likes to hear how good she looks.