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What Makes Men Attractive?

What exactly do women find in men that makes them attractive? Men usually have to learn this the hard way. Most men, when they are younger, often feel like nothing compared to the jocks who get all the attention from women. They wonder what it is that the captain of the basketball or football team has that the nerd or even the regular guy does not.

Well the most obvious thing about the guys who get the attention from women is that they are buff and hunky. They exercise a lot and they are good looking. They somehow did not get zits and they were very tall. They also had great charisma. Their smiles draw the women towards them and make them ready to do anything that they want. This might sound like a really shallow thing but the truth is that these remain to be the qualities that women try to find in their men. So knowing this, how can you transform yourself into a chick magnet?


Good looks and a charming smile are definitely needed. But there are things that you can do to get a woman’s attention without necessarily looking like a movie star.

Women are also attracted to intelligent men. They look at your personality and this is what keeps them with you. Read up on the current events and read books.

Since you are acting like someone who looks like a model, dress like one to. Look good in every instance. Groom yourself; get a haircut and shave regularly. Women do not usually go for scruffy looking men. Always be showered and wear clothes which fit you well.

Smile a lot. People love a person who has a warm smile. Smiling tells the woman that you are approachable and worth talking to. It also tells her that you are confident.

Be confident. Self-assurance is something that a lot of women look for. Act like you are attractive and people will start seeing you this way even if you are not. Be careful though since you do not want to come off as a jerk. Think of yourself as someone who looks like the male models in the magazine and soon you will begin to act like this is true. You will have really high confidence that will get the attention you covet from women. Confidence makes you seem like the alpha male which is what a lot of women are looking for.